调整自己的心态。。

yo!!

how to tiao zheng ur own feelings??

hmm..firstly...you mus not expect ur partner to put in same percentage of effort into e r/s as u did..becos it'll onli cos strain in e r/s...

secondly, something mabel n you noe...hmmm...pointed out to me was tat each of us haf different ways to show their affections, care and concern..so jus becos u do things differently doesn't mean tat u dun't care..jus tat u haf a different way of showin it..also, don't expect him to do/show e same type of affection as you does to him..cos he'll oso haf his own method of affection...understand?? hmm..a bit chim...which actualli reflects e first "rule"

anyway...thirdly..is to conpromise instead of controlling and changin e person..

fourthly..well..i guess it's tat action speaks louder den words..so instead of jus tokin..y not put them into action?? jus sayin n no move is..dotz..lol...of cos..communication is oso important..it's sometime tough to tok bout things tat's realli affectin u..but do try to tok things tru...god-daddy sae something beri true...there's no pt gettin angry n quarrel cos in e end it hurts no one jus everyone..plus when we tok, we mus b careful of our tone, our body lang, our words...cos it might hurt some one...wat he sae ar...hmm..说的人无疑，听的人有心。。plus sometimes ppl will 记仇。。

hmm...fifth..erm..i guess it's tough to digest these 4 stuff...let's no go to e fifth..plus i got a bit blury head now..can't think..lol..plus SS values are all tangled up wif my jap..lol..can't think!! tokin bout jap...tough jap lesson todae..got my exam next mon!! freakin busy tis week..jus hope tat i can finish studyin by wed/thur...haiz..tough...but well..it's gonna b interesting =)

okok...think i better go rest...

ps: prayin hard for u..がんばってね。。